Latest Blog Posts - The Confident Man Project
- How To Recover From A Narcissistic MotherNarcissistic Mothers Turned Their Back On Our Feelings When We Were Upset Growing up with a narcissistic mother can be a complete disaster for a growing boy's of self, self-confidence, and future adult relationships. Narcissists are essentially chil...
- Ten Signs That You Had A Narcissistic Motheron Jan 4, 2017 in Relationships assertiveness boundaries emotional healing mother issues narcissistic motherI had a narcissistic mother and it was a complete disaster for my boyhood sense of self-confidence and the way I saw myself as I grew into a man. A narcissistic mother can leave deep emotional and psychological wounds that get triggered in our daily...
- Why Confidence Was the Best Drug Rehabilitation: A Recovering Addict Shares His StoryMany of us struggle with self-confidence issues, but for some that anxiety can lead us down a dangerous path; we might drink a little extra liquid courage or experiment with an illicit substance in an effort to feel more accepted. But what begins as...
- My Plan For Next Year: Become A Rock StarOne of the activities that I recommend in The Confident Man Program Guide is to learn to play a musical instrument. There are a whole host of benefits to doing this beyond simply being able to play music: You also learn a whole bunch of life success...
- How To Put Your Mother In Her Rightful PlaceI was visiting my parent's place on the weekend and seeing some relatives from interstate who I don't often get the chance to hang out with. At one point we were all sitting in the lounge room listening to my father describe the apocalyptic nightmare...
- Do You Feel Guilty About Being Angry With Your Parents?on Nov 28, 2016 in Relationships anger assertiveness boundaries critical mother nonviolent communicationI grew up in a family where emotions weren't expressed cleanly; especially challenging emotions like anger. Everyone feels angry from time to time, but growing up I got the sense that there was something wrong with this basic human emotion because no...
- How To Heal Your Mother IssuesMany men have mother issues that undermine our self-confidence by stopping us from really growing up and fulfilling our true potential. Unresolved mother issues cause us to remain emotionally and developmentally immature; a boy in a man's body. If w...
- How To Overcome The Fear Of Going To HellI recently got a question via email from someone who was starting to question her religion, related to my story about How (and Why) I Went From Christian to Atheist, and wanted to know how to overcome her fear of going to hell. Are you afraid of goi...
- Is My Therapy Going Right?I got a question via email last week about how to tell when therapy is working. Here it is, along with my answer: I have been in psychoanalysis to treat emotional abuse for 4 years now, and am still in a really bad place. I exploded in anger and stop...
- Overcoming The Fear Of Being Assertive With StrangersI want to share with you a recent victory I had over the fear of being assertive with strangers, and why it's so significant for me. A few days ago I was sitting on a bench seat in a popular park down by the beach near where I live, reading a book wr...
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