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Carmen
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2012-04-04
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1. My Dating Hangovers
How do you feel in the morning after having too much to drink the night before? This is the same way most people feel about dating.
Latest Blog Posts
- In a Good PlaceMy search for a new home and a decent man seem to have a few things in common, since both have to do with distance and quality. I’m now entering into month two of trying to find a place that isn’t a piece of crap being sold at a premium price...
- Welcome to L.A.!Finally, after countless conversations and shared photographs, and far too many scenarios of how the meeting would go, it happened. Last night, Out of Sight was fully in site as he touched down for some last minute job details. You can’t imag...
- A Tale of Two Menon Apr 30, 2013 in THIS is Why I'm SingleOut of Sight is starting to seem like he is really going to be OUT of SIGHT, and the more I think about this situation with him (that should really be thought of as nothing more than a friend) I’ve been getting to know), the more annoyed and disapp...
- Small WorldThus far, things are progressing pretty well with Out of Sight, and while I think the crack in his foundation has been clearly identified based on our conversations, my focus will be away from the negative and more on the potential that he’s offeri...
- The Clymax Experience“Move your arms again and I will punish you and go harder, do you understand? Keep them up just like that. I told you when I saw you again; I was going to make sure we parted ways with you being extremely satisfied.” I can remember n...
- Keeping the tides from changingon Mar 29, 2013 in UncategorizedOut of all of the things learned during my experiences with dating and relationship, one thing is constant- you can’t change a person. We may be able to influence behavior or get a person to lean in the preferred direction, but unless he or...
- Out of Sight, On My MindSomeone has captured my attention. To the point where I look forward to receiving his quirky text messages with random “mannish moments” and the entertaining, no holds barred telephone conversations that we share. Just thinking about our tal...
- The Other White MeatRemember a few posts back when I was getting all jungle fever with it? I mentioned that I was finally ready to start paying attention to men of a different persuasion and get my swirl on. For my slow readers, I’m a black woman who has dated...
- The Other White MeatRemember a few posts back when I was getting all jungle fever with it? I mentioned that I was finally ready to start paying attention to men of a different persuasion and get my swirl on. For my slow readers, I’m a black woman who has dated...
- Too Many Thoughts & Achy NipplesI’m not sure what it was that jostled me out of the bed this morning, because it sure as hell wasn’t the chime of my alarm. Memo to self: Pressing ”Save” is a critical step when changing the time of your wakeup call. Was...
- Last Minute Meet UpIn just under 45 minutes a transformation from corporate diva to cute and chic has taken place. Aside from only having the first three toes painted (ladies, you KNOW why), I’m looking good for a first meet-up. Since I’m a little early...
- You Don’t Need New FriendsIt’s just after 6am and I just ended a telephone call with two lies by telling the man on the other end that I was parking underground and would be losing reception (with not a parking garage in sight) then saying I would call him back.That first...
- Time to Swirl?on Jan 31, 2013 in Dating options Beyond Black and White interracial dating jungle fever swirling and datingIsn’t it nice to have something to look forward to at work? Even if it happens to be some nice eye candy that is totally unattainable? The type of industry I’m in has me surrounded by tons of little Japanese with pants so tight their re...
- No Longer Accepting ApplicationsJust like that employer deciding that the maximum number of applications for an open position has been reached, I have officially closed out my online dating profile so of course this could mean one of two things. The first being the optimistic sta...
- Some women will take anything not to be aloneDoes being married or otherwise taken, a convicted felon, cheater or woman beater make men undesirable? I’m really convinced that none of those things matter in the eyes or so many women. Am I surprised to hear about Evelyn and Chad getting bac...
- Ready for My Cake!on Dec 27, 2012 in UncategorizedOkay, so the online dating scene was a bit of a bust this year. Perhaps it was my joining one of the sites that is notorious for having plenty of shit instead of fish, is what send ne over the edge. I’m not sure. Perhaps in a couple of mo...
- Is it time to settle?on Dec 23, 2012 in Online Dating Settling or Compromising? Things that turn women off THIS is Why I'm SingleThe type of man I’m looking for probably doesn’t exist. At least not yet, so it’s time for me to release myself from online dating again. I’m not sure why it has taken me so long as the women around me have been been canceling...
- Back to Hopelessnesson Dec 15, 2012 in Uncategorized are you really dating he's not the one serial daters signs he's not the oneThe Hope experience has run its course. Last night before heading to bed, I decided that settling accepting our situation for what it was didn’t appeal to me. Not expressing my thoughts didn’t appeal to me. Spending so much of my valu...
- The Importance of StretchingI just returned to work from a last minute, and very much needed doctor appointment. In exchange for a $10 co-pay, twenty minutes of waiting, an assistant who couldn’t stop gushing about how much he lovvvved my name, and a doctor who kept usi...
- Why is that phone always locked?This question came up on someone’s Facebook page this morning, and when I saw over 50 comments within ten minutes, I had to take a peek. There has only been one man I have experienced the eye-over-his-shoulder-peaking-at-the-password with. Resc...
